Wedding Wednesday: Puffed Sleeves, Revisited

It has been nearly a decade since I first featured this photograph on Homestead Genealogy, and at that time, I had never seen the original. The old photocopy in my possession was washed out and grainy, the young couple’s faces barely discernible, and the border with the photographer’s mark was not included. When a nearly pristine original made its way to me last year, I was elated: finally, every detail of the 1896 wedding portrait of my great-grandparents Mathias and Elisabeth (Hoffmann) Noehl of North Washington, Chickasaw County, Iowa, could be fully appreciated, and, in addition, the photographer’s mark offered a new clue about the couple’s lives as newlyweds.

Mathias Noehl and Elisabeth (Hoffman) Noehl, St. Peter, Nicollet County, Minnesota, 1896; digital image 2023, privately held by Melanie Frick, 2024. Courtesy of Richard Buscher (1933-2023).

In this photograph, Elisabeth, with dark hair and eyes and full brows that would be the envy of many young women of today, gazes steadily into the distance, her right hand on her husband’s shoulder and her left holding what is likely a Catholic prayerbook. Her dark dress boasts the elegantly puffed sleeves so popular in the mid-1890s, and a floor-length veil is affixed to the back of her head. A substantial floral arrangement is perched atop her head, cascading over her forehead, while smaller floral sprigs are fastened to her collar and her gathered bodice. These may well have been wax flowers, and appear to be orange blossoms, which were a popular choice for bridal wreaths. Elisabeth, who had immigrated to America from Germany at the age of twenty, had celebrated her twenty-seventh birthday less than a week prior to her marriage.

Mathias, blond and with a fair complexion, gazes in the opposite direction as his bride, his posture upright but casual as he poses seated in a wicker chair, one elbow resting on the arm. He wears a dark suit and vest with a white shirt and necktie, and a floral corsage has been attached to the front of his jacket. What may be a watch chain peeks out underneath. Mathias wears his hair short and has a full mustache; like Elisabeth, his expression is serious. Twenty-eight years old, Mathias had by that point spent a decade in America after emigrating from his native Germany.

Years later, he wrote of his meeting with Elisabeth:

“One day I was standing in front of the house of a venerable old priest, in whose service for five years I found living a good woman. She was reflecting what vocation she should choose. The old pastor had advised her to spend the rest of her life with him, as housekeeper, but on the other side of the house, the nuns beckoned to her, “Come and join us, Lizzie.” Then it happened that I passed by. I was in a neglected condition. My suit of clothes appeared to have seen better days. A hailstorm seemed to have come over my hat. My blond hair lay around my temples unkempt like dried up flowers of the cemetery. When she heard that I had come from her neighborhood village, Holsthum, she said to herself, “That is a disgrace to the whole valley of Prüm. He must be hidden from the streets of North Washington, even if I have to marry him. Perhaps there is hidden in that neglected and careless fellow a good provider, and, if I succeed in making a good Christian out of him, I can earn besides a good crown in heaven.” She thought further, “This is Leap Year and Eve had the job in paradise, a breath-taking job it was, to make the marriage offer. At my first attack, he fell on my breast. Father Probst then tied me to him, on the twenty-second day of September 1896, and he made the knot so tight that I could not think to get away from him anymore.”

Memoirs of Mathias Noehl (Translation)

Although the couple married in Iowa, the mark of the photographer Bancroft on this cabinet card reveals that their wedding portrait was not taken there. St. Peter, Minnesota was well over one hundred miles from North Washington, Iowa, where their marriage had been solemnized on 22 September 1896. What could have brought Mathias and Elisabeth there? I don’t have a good answer. It seems highly unlikely that the couple, certainly not well-to-do, would have set off on a leisurely honeymoon tour of the Midwest; more plausible is that they ventured to Minnesota, where Mathias had spent his first years in America, in order to visit Mathias’s aunts and uncles and/or to scout out a potential place to settle. Mathias and Elisabeth did later reside in Minnesota, but only briefly; after their first two children were born in Iowa, their third child was born in Meeker County, Minnesota in the spring of 1900 following a failed stint in Alberta. However, within months, the family had returned to Chickasaw County, Iowa. A few years later, they made a brief attempt to homestead in Saskatchewan, but, again, ultimately returned to Iowa to raise their nine children. In any case, it is known that Mathias had connections in Minnesota, and undoubtedly some familiarity with the rail lines—one of which did indeed pass through St. Peter.

As North Washington was a small community—its population has hovered between about one hundred to one hundred fifty residents for the past century—a photographer was presumably not available to Mathias and Elisabeth on the day of their marriage. Thus, the couple may have made a point to seek out a photographer during their travels north. For Elisabeth to have taken the effort to travel with her veil and flowers, it seems that this “photo op” must have been carefully planned, and indeed, as Mathias’s parents remained in Germany, it may have meant a great deal to the couple to have a portrait taken in order for Mathias to be able to introduce his parents to his bride.

Copyright © 2024 Melanie Frick. All Rights Reserved.

SOURCES

“Iowa State Census, 1895,” database with images, FamilySearch (www.familysearch.org : accessed 23 April 2024), Elizabeth Hoffman in household of J. F. Probsh [Probst], Chickasaw, Iowa, United States; citing State Historical Society, Des Moines.

1900 U.S. census, Chickasaw County, Iowa, population schedule, Washington, Enumeration District (ED) 42, sheet 8, p. 984 (handwritten), dwelling 158, family 158, Matt Noehl and Elizabeth Noehl; digital image, Ancestry.com (www.ancestry.com : accessed 23 April 2024), citing National Archives microfilm T623, roll 18.

“Iowa, U.S., Marriage Records, 1880-1951,” database and images, Ancestry.com (www.ancestry.com : accessed 23 April 2024), Mathias Noehl and Elizabeth Hoffman, 22 September 1896, North Washington, Chickasaw, Iowa; citing Iowa Department of Public Health, Des Moines.

“New York, Passenger Lists, 1820-1957,” digital images, Ancestry.com (www.ancestry.com : accessed 23 April 2024), manifest, S.S. Noordland, Antwerp, Belgium, to New York, arriving 28 May 1886, Mathias Nocke [Noehl], line 450; citing National Archives microfilm publication M237, roll 495.

“New York, Passenger Lists, 1820-1957,” digital images, Ancestry.com (www.ancestry.com : accessed 23 April 2024), manifest, S.S. Friesland, Antwerp, Belgium to New York, arriving 21 May 1890, Elis Hoffman; citing National Archives microfilm M237, roll 548.

Noehl, Mathias. “Memoirs.” MS. New Hampton, Iowa, ca. 1938-1950. Privately held by Melanie Frick. Note: Excerpt from an unpaginated German to English translation.

4 thoughts on “Wedding Wednesday: Puffed Sleeves, Revisited

  1. Mary Jo Yokiel

    Wonderful story about your ancestors. Your great-grandfather wrote with wit! They may have traveled through Minnesota Lake, MN, by rail, on their way to St. Peter! I remember reading the Laura Ingalls Wilder series. Her mother did keep in touch with fashions by using Godey’s Ladies Book, while out on the prairie. Our ancestors were chic!

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    1. Melanie Frick Post author

      Thank you! He was quite a writer! And yes, it’s amazing how much effort was made to be fashionable even far from the big cities – and how talented so many women were as seamstresses!

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  2. Mary Kay Chicoine

    What a treasure to have such a pristine photo of your relatives AND a wonderful written account of their meeting each other! The flowers could well have been wax flowers, popular for weddings at the time. They definitely had artificial flowers then.

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